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If I understand your post correctly you have a digital piano and were testing acoustic pianos at the store. You have to understand that adjusting to the touch of an acoustic piano after playing basically only on a digital requires some time, maybe even several hours or days. Also, adjusting to the tone of an acoustic versus whatever you're used to on your digital requires time. It's even possible that the acoustic pianos you tried were not tuned well and that's why you didn't like the tone. It's also not true that having a very light action is necessarily good or makes it easier to play faster. If things were that simple, acoustic and digital piano makers would all make their actions very light.
Your difficulty playing pp on the acoustic piano could be a problem with your technique(Playing very softly while avoiding ghost notes Is quite an advanced technical issue), or your technique might be fine but you're just not used to the acoustic piano, or the piano might be poorly regulated, or some other factor. But this does not mean you should necessarily reject acoustic pianos out of hand. When I was accompanying the rehearsals of some musical I played almost exclusively on acoustic pianos. The rehearsal used a digital and it took me about an hour to be able to adjust to the piano despite decades of experience on various instruments
None of the above means keeping and enjoying your present digital piano is not a reasonable or good option. But if you're looking for an improvement in touch and/or tone you need to spend more time trying each piano out and not make such a quick judgment about whether you like a particular piano. Even someone going from one digital piano to another digital piano or from one acoustic piano to a different acoustic piano usually requires some time to adjust to the different feel of the action.