Ithaca I think (totally not sure) that you control the hammer velocity and the damper behavior via the impulse that you apply at the keys.
I agree. This is also something I have been pondering over. I think I can reconcile the impulse and the velocity.
When I said velocity, I am think the velocity of the hammer at the moment it leaves the escapement. From then on, it is out of the pianist's control. This velocity is the result of the impulse from the finger, or more accurately from the whole playing apparatus (finger, knuckles, wrist, arm, shoulder, back).
To understand the impulse, I'd like to think its polar opposite. Think an example of an extremely heavy moving object collide with an extremely very light stationary object - the light object will accelerate almost instantly to the heavy object's velocity. Make that analogy with a heavy arm, falling at a controlled constant velocity from high above the keys, and striking with steely fingers - that will move the key instantly to match the fingers velocity. That would be super accurate control of the velocity at the with the hammer strikes. Only that we humans, or most of us, cannot do it that way. The key need to gradually accelerate from stationary to a certain velocity at the let-off point. This is the impulse. And this gradual acceleration can also vary a lot based on how we perform the impulse, and even where we start the impulse from. Although the goal is to control the velocity at let-off, I doubt any human is capable of sensing speed at that precise moment. We have to control the velocity at let-off indirectly by controlling how we execute the impulse. So the real question, again, is what kind of motion gives us the best control of the impulse and the resulting hammer velocity.