Hi
This is a very simple way of thinking about the diminished 3rd that Keystring and I discussed privately whilst this thread was locked.
If you take the C major scale that we all know and love...
C D E F G A B C
And if we zoom in on the first 3 notes of the scale C D E
These are the root, 2nd and 3rd of the scale.
Any combination of notes that involve C and D will always be called a 2nd.
So C and D# is an augmented 2nd, even though it sounds the same as a minor 3rd; but it cannot be called a minor 3rd because it does not contain any form of E - the 3rd note of the scale.
Any combination of notes that involve C and E will always be called a 3rd.
So C# and Eb is a diminished 3rd, even though it sounds the same as a major 2nd; but it cannot be called a major 2nd because it does not contain any form of D - the 2nd note of the scale.
That is how I think about the theory behind these intervals when looking at written music. You have to consider the key signature, the accidentals and how they relate to the root, 2nd and 3rd. That is the music theory we have! It isn't perfect, but it's very unlikely to change.
Of course if you only hear the intervals and you have good musical ears you would name the intervals the other way around. You will hear a major 2nd when it's actually written as a diminished 3rd on paper. Though maybe if someone had perfect pitch and they heard the interval in context, I suppose it's just possible they might work out that it's not a major 2nd??
All that said I'm not an expert 🙂, and it's 16 years since I last studied theory seriously.
Cheers