Nightowl
My mom is 99 heading for 100 next year. Coming from a non-musical family she prefers to spend her last days in front of the TV… like every show is educational. No inclination to get into music if you give her another decade to live.
Over the last decade I acquired repertoire books & sheet music to last for many more years.
At a typical family gathering a few people took music lessons but hardly anybody would admit he/she took lessons not to be asked to play something. I’m playing everyday now. When I get to 90, I’ll keep the music going.